Straight Arrows from My Heart
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Arrow 1: Mercy

The word mercy never appealed to me until recently.

According to Merriam Webster dictionary:
      mercy is defined as compassion or forbearance shown especially to an offender or to one subject to one's power
      It also means lenient or compassionate treatment as in begging for mercy

My mom fell down the stairs backward recently, my sister called 911. The paramedics came and transported her on an ambulance to the local hospital. My mom had fractures in her neck, spine, rib and in both wrists. Even with the slightest movement, she felt immense pain. Thankfully her head only suffered bleeding. One of the nurses said to me that it is a good thing my mom's head is alright because everything else is fixable. My mom stayed at the ICU (Intensive Care Unit) for ten days. The doctor who saw my mom say she will stay in hospital for some time until she is able to get out of bed on her own. He said she will get some physical therapy at the hospital. Yet, eight days later, a hospital worker came and said my mom will be discharged from the hospital the next day though my mom is still lying in bed in ICU and needs assistance on almost everything. He's basically throwing my mom out of the hospital. This was a shocking news to my mom and my family. It's ironic that the hospital's name is Mercy, yet this worker is showing no mercy to my mom or us at all ??? My mom was allowed to stay one more day in ICU. Then my mom was discharged, and she went to a rehab facility.

I thought mercy is only for the weak, for a person who is in distress.
BUT, I am wrong.
Mercy is not just for the weak only, it is for those who are strong enough to admit that I do not have it altogether.
I can't do it all myself; I need help.
A person shows a strength of character when they are able to face their strengths and weaknesses. Only a strong person can truly be honest about their limitations.

"Judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment." James 2:13

Indeed, it is easier to judge someone than to be merciful. To show mercy to someone means to let go of your judgment, let go of your rightful demand over them. Simply put, it is to forgo the debt they owe you.

There is a parable about two people who owed money in the Bible (see Luke 7:41-43)

41 “Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii and the other fifty.
42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”
43 Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.” “You have judged correctly,” Jesus said.

God show us mercy by giving us His Beloved Son.
If you don't think you need God's mercy, just take a deep breath. If God didn't create air, you can't even live.

"Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy." Matthew 5:7
Those who are shown mercy will show mercy to others.

Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16
Mercy is the ability to admit to myself and even to others including God that I am not enough.
I need you God.